This weekend Luke and I will have our seventh wedding anniversary. That means it’s the sixteenth year we’ve been a couple. Yikes! It occurred to me this morning, as I was filling out a form that required both of our social security numbers, that perhaps it’s been too long. I stared at the form, completely frozen, with two sets of SS numbers in my head. I just couldn’t remember which was mine and which was Luke’s. We have become one and the same.